(4/5) Be a Disciple

His Divine Grace Om Vishnupad
Srila Bhakti Nirmal Acharya Maharaj
Tarakeshwar, evening class, 10 July 2020, part 4
Translated from Bengali

When Gurudev engages in you in some service, that service is the highest service for you. Gurudev engages somebody to worship Deities, somebody to chant kirtans – you should do whatever service you are told to do by your Guru.

People write letters or phone their Guru, saying, 'Gurudev, please give me your mercy.' But when Gurudev says, 'Do this service,' then – 'Dandavat!' and you are gone. I have written about this also in this book, here in Guidance 4.

'A husband does not give food to his wife, but she still never stops serving him; he does not give her good clothes and jewellery, but she does not say anything because there is love—another wife will say, “I have not got anything to eat! I do not have anything to wear!” and leave the house. Relationship comes from love. Love does not come from selfish interests. If there are selfish interests in any relationship, then this is a shopkeeper's transaction. There is love in the relationship between a guru and a disciple—this is where the supreme benefit (divine love) comes from.

'I have taken a guru—he has given me a mantra, I have given him some donation. What other relationship is there? This is a shopkeeper's transaction; but there is spiritual benefit in the relationship between a guru and a disciple—this relationship is based on love or service. Just as there is a certain relationship between a father and a son, a certain relationship between a husband and a wife, there is also a certain relationship between a guru and a disciple. There are many gurus in this world. They give mantras, they take donations—such gurus open their 'shop' (Math, temple, ashram, etc.) and sit there. You will come to them and they will not let you go back. There are many gurus in this world, but the number of disciples is very small. Some may say, “You have many disciples here.” They may have taken the mantra, but they are not disciples. You can see many Maths, temples, ashrams, etc.), but there are very few disciples in this world. Who is a disciple (sisya)? It is the one who accepts disciplining (sasan).

'"Disciplining" means flogging, lashing, or scolding, but the real meaning of the word "discipline" means not beating, but correction, uplifting, giving benefit; it means picking up and uplifting the disciple from whatever position he or she may be in. Those who are fit to be disciplined are called disciples. Those who are regulated, guided, and taken care of are called disciples. “Gurudev can do anything he wants with me, I am ready to take his disciplining, rules, guidance on my head”— such disciples are very rare. There are thousands and thousands of disciples who just take the mantra, but in most cases, that guru-disciple relationship does not come because those who do become real disciples will want to be guided by Gurudev, but most people do not want to accept chastisement—very few people will want to be chastised. On the other hand, those who want to be chastised, do not cross Gurudev's instruction all the time—at first, because of the result of your karma, you are not able to follow Gurudev's order properly, but you think, “I will live following the guidance of Gurudev”—when you take on this resolve, then you will get the right to be called a disciple. And those who want to be chastised and who are able to take it, are extremely fortunate. When a disciple wants to be chastised by Gurudev and is chastised, then this is a proper disciple.

'There are three categories or classes of disciples. (1) There is a class of disciples who neither want to be disciplined, nor do they get any disciplining; most people are in this category. (2) There is another class of disciples who want to be disciplined, but they cannot follow that disciplining. There are such people. They get disciplined, but they cannot follow it; even if they say they will follow it, they do not—this is still better than the first category. (3) The third class are the disciples who want to be disciplined, want to live following rules, want guidance, and when they get disciplined by Gurudev, they follow his order. They want to be chastised, they get chastised— such disciples become gurus. If somebody wants to be chastised, has been chastised, and if Gurudev has made and is making a disciple from them, then such a disciple has the qualities of a guru.

'Many have this misconception that if you take a mantra, you become a disciple. In fact, taking a mantra means there is a possibility that you will become a disciple. Those who can digest and follow chastisement have the right to become a disciple. If you want to be chastised, you will be chastised—if you are a proper disciple. Guru-varga give them an indication how to follow the rules, guidance and spiritual path. “Do not go this way, go this way!” A guru is a disciple who goes down the right path following the set rules.

'Many disciples take the mantra and come saying, “Prabhu, please give me your mercy, please give me your blessing.” Why do they pray like this? They submit such prayers to get protection from some problems in their material life. [Many people have some problems in their family, so they call their Guru, crying, 'Gurudev, please give your mercy!'] They do not pray to get spiritual benefit. “Make anything you want from me”—I am a piece of clay, you can make a water pot, or a cooking pot from me, whatever you want. If the disciple is serious, then there will be built a guru-disciple relationship. If this relationship is established in your life, you can get the supreme benefit (pure loving devotion).

'The relationship between a guru and a disciple is just like the relationship between a husband and a wife. Gurudev will do with the disciple whatever he wants. If you are scolded and kicked, you are a disciple. If Gurudev does not scold you, does not kick you and cannot beat you, then you are not a disciple. If I cannot discipline, guide or order someone, then they are not my disciple. If the guru is a proper guru and there is this relationship or love between the guru and the disciple, then the result will be great. There are very few such disciples. You should try to become proper disciples.

'“I want to be chastised by Gurudev—I will follow his order to a T.” This should not be merely lip-deep, you must want it in writing, in your heart, and in your mind—I must hanker to be disciplined with my entire being. If you can imbibe such mood, you must certainly get benefit. If you have such mood, it will not take you long to get the result. There is no lack of obeisances (pranam) and donations (pranami). There are many disciples who offer flowers to a picture, but there are very few people who would want to accept disciplining properly and change their life according to it. If you have got the mantra and want to become a disciple, you must practise Krishna consciousness. Just as there are very few disciples, there are also very few gurus. Just as there is only one Supreme Lord, the guru is also one. There are not many of them.'

This is what I wrote in this book. Read it carefully. These are very beautiful things.

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